My husband is the type of man who can’t stay still in one place. He has to do something at all times; he is restless. Even when we simply talk, he has to fidget and do something. That is largely why he would not refuse a job or a task; he is always working and traveling. His biggest goal was to get rich. He would always tell me, “I will rest when I reach the status and have enough money to do so.” But that put a hold on everything else in his life, including me. As if I were a goal that he checked off the list of his goals. Our sex life had been great before we got married, and two years into our marriage, he started to drift off and sometimes refused my advances. I was sexually frustrated, and masturbating was getting old and unsatisfying. I needed a man’s touch, but I hated the thought of cheating on him.